The day chivalry dies is the day I hop up and down with joy. These days, at least, "chivalry" is just barely veiled patronization; yes, goddammit, I WILL give up free drinks if it means you treat me like a human being first and a pair of tits after.

I heartily endorse your definition of feminism, too. It frustrates me that so many people - some of them female - want to believe that "feminism" comes with a set of rules about how you *must* behave, rather than merely being the opportunity for choice.