
Francis Straub
Let me begin by saying I don't want to exaggerate my connection with Frank. My grief is light compared to those who knew him well; but I still grieve for the loss of someone vital, someone who touched my life briefly, and someone I will always remember with fondness.
Frank was a soldier, a black belt in karate, a 'ladies man', a survivor of a pretty rotten childhood, and a nice guy.
I really knew him only for a short time back in 2002, but we had a casual friendship, we hung out a few times outside of the dojo and so forth. The most memorable time was when a small group of us including Frank went to Tiger Schulmann's headquarters up in North Jersey - they were 'auditioning' for a commercial, and Frank asked me and a couple other women to come up. We did, it was fun, and, ironically, we took a detour to NYC as it was the 6th month anniversary of the 9/11 bombings.
Frank was Charlie's 'sensei' briefly when Charlie took karate at Tiger Schulmann. He was awesome with the kids, he really liked them and it showed in the way he taught them. When my friend had her son's birthday at the dojo, and Frank was there, playing with the kids, teaching them moves, convincing me to wear the tiger costume to bring out the cake.
My friend new him better than I did. (why she knew him isn't my story to tell) She told me that the last time she spoke to him he told her he was going to Iraq and, ever the fatalist, told her he didn't think he'd be coming home.
Osu, Sempai. Rest in peace.