Apparently I did things she 'doesn't want to get into'
That, to me, says that she's completely unjustified. Maybe you did nothing wrong. Maybe you did something little that's worth an eye-roll but not a severing of friendship.
But if you did something that was worth cutting contact, my guess is you'd already know what it was. And if you didn't know, she'd probably tell you.
Her behavior seems very bizarre to me. I think she knows she's being inappropriate and doesn't have any decent justification for why she's treating you like that.
Whenever I've had things I "don't want to get into" with my friends. It means that they've annoyed me in some way — but I know that the situation is not that they did anything really wrong but that I'm overreacting or being self-absorbed. If I have reason to be pissed off, I'll let them know what's bothering me.
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ninetydegrees
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on 2007-06-07 08:45 pm (UTC)That, to me, says that she's completely unjustified. Maybe you did nothing wrong. Maybe you did something little that's worth an eye-roll but not a severing of friendship.
But if you did something that was worth cutting contact, my guess is you'd already know what it was. And if you didn't know, she'd probably tell you.
Her behavior seems very bizarre to me. I think she knows she's being inappropriate and doesn't have any decent justification for why she's treating you like that.
Whenever I've had things I "don't want to get into" with my friends. It means that they've annoyed me in some way — but I know that the situation is not that they did anything really wrong but that I'm overreacting or being self-absorbed. If I have reason to be pissed off, I'll let them know what's bothering me.