Yeah, I know, I'm an idiot
Jun. 7th, 2007 03:45 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
charliesmumSo Charlie's friend Devon, he's the son of the woman who decided to stop talking to me, and he made a comment about how his mom had 'issues' with me, and something about not being allowed to play with Charlie for awhile or something, and I got fed up and I called her, which, yeah, was stupid. That rushing sound was my pride being tossed out the window.
Apparently I did things she 'doesn't want to get into', what I honestly can't imagine, and she just 'doesn't want to hang out with me' any more.
And I'm really upset that it upsets me this much.
I wish I knew what I did. And at any rate, you'd think what ever sins I transgressed would be mitigated by the numorous times I watched their demon child so they could have some time alone, or all the things I gave them when they had the foster kids, or the fact I was there for her when they were going through all the drama with the foster kids. I once raced to the school with clothes for their son when he had an accident because Jennifer wasn't in the area.
And I really hate not getting in the last word. Don't you hate it when you really want to call back and say 'yeah, well...' but you know it is just going to wind up hurting you more?
Defriending sucks.
Apparently I did things she 'doesn't want to get into', what I honestly can't imagine, and she just 'doesn't want to hang out with me' any more.
And I'm really upset that it upsets me this much.
I wish I knew what I did. And at any rate, you'd think what ever sins I transgressed would be mitigated by the numorous times I watched their demon child so they could have some time alone, or all the things I gave them when they had the foster kids, or the fact I was there for her when they were going through all the drama with the foster kids. I once raced to the school with clothes for their son when he had an accident because Jennifer wasn't in the area.
And I really hate not getting in the last word. Don't you hate it when you really want to call back and say 'yeah, well...' but you know it is just going to wind up hurting you more?
Defriending sucks.
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on 2007-06-07 08:45 pm (UTC)That, to me, says that she's completely unjustified. Maybe you did nothing wrong. Maybe you did something little that's worth an eye-roll but not a severing of friendship.
But if you did something that was worth cutting contact, my guess is you'd already know what it was. And if you didn't know, she'd probably tell you.
Her behavior seems very bizarre to me. I think she knows she's being inappropriate and doesn't have any decent justification for why she's treating you like that.
Whenever I've had things I "don't want to get into" with my friends. It means that they've annoyed me in some way — but I know that the situation is not that they did anything really wrong but that I'm overreacting or being self-absorbed. If I have reason to be pissed off, I'll let them know what's bothering me.