Ethical Connundrum
Dec. 4th, 2007 12:04 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
charliesmumI am interested in getting your opinion on something.
I've been driving Charlie's friend to school in the mornings - his house isn't really out of my way, and I go right past the school on my way to work, and now the weather is bad it just makes more sense then sending them to the bus stop.
This morning, he handed me a card, and in it was $20.00 and a thank you for driving.
Now, with my current financial status, an extra $20.00 I wasn't expecting is rather welcome, but I feel a bit guilty about accepting it.
What do you think?
Is it rude not to accept a gift? Should one just give a heartfelt thanks, and move on, or should one say "Oh, I couldn't possibly accept this. It is my pleasure to drive the kid every morning."
I've been driving Charlie's friend to school in the mornings - his house isn't really out of my way, and I go right past the school on my way to work, and now the weather is bad it just makes more sense then sending them to the bus stop.
This morning, he handed me a card, and in it was $20.00 and a thank you for driving.
Now, with my current financial status, an extra $20.00 I wasn't expecting is rather welcome, but I feel a bit guilty about accepting it.
What do you think?
Is it rude not to accept a gift? Should one just give a heartfelt thanks, and move on, or should one say "Oh, I couldn't possibly accept this. It is my pleasure to drive the kid every morning."
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on 2007-12-05 05:24 am (UTC)You are being generous and gracious by releiving them of the problem of how to get their kid to school, let them return the favor. :)